Wednesday, November 28, 2012

The Lost Art of Disciple Making - Book Review

 I just read The Lost Art of Disciple Making and I must confess I was impressed by the book!  I am growing in my knowledge of disciple making, a concept that was ambiguous at best in the church where I grew up, and this book is a valuable resource.  If you're serious about discipling people to help them to maturity in Christ I highly recommend this book.  

The author, LeRoy Eims, starts by explaining discipleship and it's value.  Then he get to practical application of how to disciple.  From there he then teaches how to train up discipling leaders.  

I believe this is the second most neglected aspect in the 21st century church today, the first being the lost priority of worship (when I say worship, I'm not referring exclusively to music).  Often evangelical churches excel in preaching, teaching and some level of community.  However, they miss deep relational & accountability of discipleship.  Those elements are how Jesus discipled.  Should we be any different?  I hope that has intrigued you enough to pick up the book and read it.

Overall I give this book 4.5 out of 5.

Click here to view it on Amazon.

Saturday, September 29, 2012

Thoughts on Worship

It has been a while since I've written on my blog, so I'm hoping to keep up better in the future.

Here's a great article by Bob Kauflin on worship.  I have nothing to add, it speaks for itself.


I’ve been musing recently about how we express our musical opinions. Why do we feel so strongly about songs, bands, and styles? And why do we draw conclusions so quickly? Nope. Don’t like it. That stinks. I can’t stand that kind of music. You like that stuff? Is there anything wrong with raving about the music/artists we love and being swift to trash those we despise?
If we’re Christians, yes. Let me suggest ten reasons why musical forbearance might be good for our souls.
1. Being a self-appointed music critic is often just a sign of pride.Using outrageous or exaggerated words to put down certain songs, styles, or artists can be a symptom of selfishness, laziness, or arrogance. We don’t want to spend time investigating whether or not our assessment is accurate because we’re too busy sharing our opinions. (Prov. 18:2)
2. Music doesn’t define us. Why do we become offended when someone critiques our favorite song, group, or style of music? Because they’re insulting “our” music, which means they’re insultingus. That’s idolatry. Music isn’t our life — Christ is. (Col. 3:4).
3. Great songs don’t always sound great the first time through.Some songs require repeated listenings to appreciate their value.  Albums and songs often grow on us over time. Is all the best music always instantly accessible or appealing? I hope not.
4. The introduction to a song isn’t the same thing as the song. The first twenty seconds of a song usually doesn’t represent the whole song. It just introduces it. Deciding we don’t like a song from the start can keep us from hearing something we might truly enjoy or benefit from.
5. Listening to music the masses have never heard of doesn’t make us better. Some of us derive a particular joy in finding and listening to obscure, undiscovered artists. As if being unknown was admirable in and of itself. Some bands are undiscovered because they’re not very good. And if we do happen to discover a talented unknown band, it’s an opportunity to serve others, not look down on them.
6. Listening to music that is massively popular doesn’t make us better. This is the opposite craving of the previous point. It’s the mindset that says if the song or artist hasn’t been on the radio, at the top of the charts, or on TV, it’s not worth listening to.
7. Learning to appreciate unfamiliar music is one way to prefer others. Why does everyone have to like the music I like? What might I learn about my friends by patiently seeking to understand why they like the music they do? (Phil. 2:4)
8. Learning to like other kinds of music can open my eyes to God’s creativity. In his book, Music Through the Eyes of Faith, Harold Best addresses musical elitists. “Among all this stuff that needs aesthetic redeeming, there is also goodness, a whole lot of integrity and honesty, from which they themselves can learn.” (p. 89) That means I can actually enjoy music that is less sophisticated than what I’d ordinarily listen to.
9. We may have to eat our words. It’s happened more than a few times. I mouth off about how bad a song is, and later on start to think it’s actually pretty good. Or I tear up a song on my blog and later find myself talking to a person who loves it or the person who wrote it. Oops.
10. We might be missing an opportunity to be grateful for God’s gifts. Our tendency is to assume that God’s gifts all look and sound the same. They don’t. What would happen if the first time we heard a song we sought to be grateful rather than critical?
Let me be clear. No song is above evaluation and there are truly bad songs. We just might serve others and ourselves more effectively if we expressed our musical opinions with a little more grace.
[originally posted Dec. 7, 2008]

Thursday, August 2, 2012

Great New CD!

Loving the new Vertical Worship CD!  How refreshing to hear Christ exalting worship music!

Click here to check it out.





Sunday, May 27, 2012

Criticism

I have to admit I was initially mad then defensive when I received some harsh words from an occasional visitor at our church about our style of worship... not enough hymns for her taste.
My initial reaction was to fight back.  Doesn't she know it's not about the form as much as about the substance and heart?  As I carefully crafted a genius response - in my mind - God laid it on my heart to say nothing.  That's right, nothing.  To simply let it go.
Let it go.
That's not my style to let it go.  I love to debate and defend my positions.  No doubt that's my pride coming out at times.
As I wrestled with this thought of letting it go, I randomly picked up a book that I had started reading a couple months ago but it had lost my attention.   There it was, God speaking just as if he was in physical form in the room speaking in an audible voice.  In the book, a pastor outlining his difficulty with some members and how he handled it.  He loved them. 
No harsh immediate rebuke.
He valued them.  Cared for them.  Listened.  He loved.
Wow, what a word.  This lady will probably never know that her words hurt me.  But my response will be love.  Not because it's what I want to do but because it's what God has shown me. 
Anyone can love when it's things are going well but our true test of character is to love others even when they are un-lovable.
May God be glorified in our responses. 

Monday, May 7, 2012

My answer to a question of how are visitors drawn to a church?

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In answer to your last question, prayer… God is drawing people to [church name] through his sovereignty.  We’ve had several visitors say similar things, paraphrasing here, “we just saw the church and felt like we had to come and check it out.”  We have done no advertising or promotion.  When men and women get on their knees and a church takes prayer seriously I strongly believe God uses that church for His glory.

Please take time to read this link…

http://www.evanwiggs.com/revival/portrait/spurgeon.html

James MacDonald has said numerous times when asked how his church flourished so much both in number and in spiritual depth, now 16,000 over 6 campuses in Chicago alone, and more importantly sending Pastors all across the country and the world.  He says, again paraphrasing, “we struggled as a church for a number of years until we started taking prayer seriously, it was only when we wept before God in agonizing prayer that he chose to use us for the glory of His name.”

And when I say Harvest takes it seriously, you have no idea the lengths they go to in fervent prayer – here’s a clue, it’s not a Wed night “prayer meeting”.

If you think about it, doesn’t it make sense?  Imagine a church who has not first fully committed to prayer and starts to grow and flourish.  The temptation is then, “look what we’ve done.”  But if a church is first on their knees, humbling themselves before God, confessing sin and calling out for His favor, then it’s “look what God has done.”

It’s not structure, form of government (although bad church polity will hinder ministry), organization, location, advertising or programs.  Just prayer.  Too simple isn’t it?



Tuesday, January 17, 2012

To my worship team...

An excerpt from an e-mail I wrote today to my worship team...


Keep in mind 3 things as we move forward:
1) commitment to prayer - pray for each other within the team, as a group and for Kingston specifically in the area of worship
2) commitment to holiness - continue to meet with your accountability partners, make this a priority to pray for one another and share life together.
3) Love & humility - don't allow division within the group, show grace and love to your fellow members - remember Satan's favorite strategy is to divide and conquer.  Most often when we're tempted in this area it's because we've allowed pride to infiltrate our hearts.  Continually seek being broken before the cross, allowing God to humble you.  (Romans 12:3)

Philippians 2:3
Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.

Future Posts!

3 posts I'm writing for my blog coming soon, can't wait...
1) Worship Philosophy: Why new contemporary songs in corporate worship and why we sing primarily to God instead of just about God.

2) Response to Elder led vs. Elder rule:  Distinguishing what scripture really says about Elders and church polity and what has been man made (i.e. congregationalism).  Specifically dispelling what congregationalists have deemed as "musts" when in reality after taking a closer look are not in scripture at all.

3) Review of the book Going Deep by Gordon MacDonald (I'm currently about half way through).  A lot of good stuff so far but it will depend on where it heads in the end.

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

What God is teaching me...

There is tremendous value in assessing what God is teaching us in our life.  As I have recently assessed this, He's teaching me three things during this season of life...

  1. Trust his provision - we don't get things when we want them or to the extent we want them - that's probably a good thing.  I'm still learning to trust that he will provide and not try to fix it myself.  I wish this wasn't so hard.
  2. God is still at work - so many new evidences of his working in my life and in the people around me - particularly at church.  How cool is it to see God's hand working things out.
  3. Prayer is paramount - I work hard but fall into the trap of working without the fuel that powers ministry and that's prayer.  God's teaching me that a regular and effectual prayer life is a must have for every believer.  I've always accepted the power of prayer but putting it into practice is the challenge.
Looking forward to the days and weeks ahead and to what God is going to do!  

Jason

Booksneeze.com

Just applied to be a book reviewer on Booksneeze.com, stoked and looking forward to it!  I love reading books and reviewing them (just check out more of the posts on this blog) and this would be a cool way to get free books and review them!  I hope I get accepted!

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Elders & Church Polity

My friend and mentor Brian White from Harvest Bible Chapel North Indy in an e-mail he wrote to me regarding Elders and church polity.  Wise, so wise.


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Jason,

I'm thrilled with all I see going on in your life and in the work there at Kingston. I do not see any evidence of a congregationalist viewpoint in the NT. The closest would be in Acts 6 when the congregation gives input and helps select the men who would become deacons. However, the authority to install them is still given to the Apostle's/Elders of the church. I think if you are holding to a pure form of practice, Elder-led is the way to go. Again, I believe you are on point in your criticism of the congregationalist view presupposed in the passages mentioned. I see that when we say tell it to the church, we are talking about the Elders addressing it and then sharing that info with the church as necessary. We find no evidence of congregational voting anywhere in the NT. Therefore, it can't be argued for with biblical evidence. In turn, because it is not mentioned we shouldn't automatically throw it out as an option because in freedom/liberty we could choose that route.

A couple of weaknesses of purely Elder-led churches:
1. Pride can sink the ship - Elders who don't "Elder" from a correct biblical viewpoint will KILL the church.
2. Detachment - Elders can become detached from the congregation and not provide adequate care and communication to help shepherd the flock in decisions and reasoning.
3. Inwardly turned leadership - If the church is not careful, Elders will turn their attention to running the church instead of discipling and shepherding the flock.

A couple of weaknesses of congregation-led churches:
1. The most spiritual and the most carnal have the same vote
2. It mistakes democracy for theology
3. It can lead more easily to division.

I think a measured approach is suggested by Acts 6. Elder-led with alot of Congregational input. NO Votes. Communication in love, shepherding discussions for as long as it takes, etc.

There is a book at Lifeway that gives 4 views on church leadership (Plurality of Elders, Single-led Elder/Pastor, Congregational, Hybrid) I believe it is printed by Broadman and Holman as part of there "competing views series" (see other examples like 4 views of tribulation, 3 view of family ministry, 4 views on education, etc.) I'll try to track down the title. Also, Strauch's Biblical Eldership is another good one. I believe MacArthur addresses it in one of his books too (I'll track that down also)

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Thankful for your friendship and partnership in the Gospel!

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Great quotes on prayer part II...

Some people pray just to pray and some people pray to know God. --Andrew Murray

There is a mighty lot of difference between saying prayers and praying. --John G. Lake

You may pray for an hour and still not pray. You may meet God for a moment and then be in touch with Him all day. --Fredrik Wisloff

I have so much to do that I spend several hours in prayer before I am able to do it.—John Wesley

I have been driven many times to my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had absolutely no other place to go. -- Abraham Lincoln

Always respond to every impulse to pray. The impulse to pray may come when you are reading or when you are battling with a text. I would make an absolute law of this – always obey such an impulse. --Martyn Lloyd-Jones

Wishing will never be a substitute for prayer. --Ed Cole

One can believe intellectually in the efficacy of prayer and never do any praying. --Catherine Marshall

Is prayer your steering wheel or your spare tire?-- Corrie Ten Boom

Pray often, for prayer is a shield to the soul, a sacrifice to God, and a scourge for Satan --John Bunyan

Of all the duties enjoined by Christianity none is more essential and yet more neglected than prayer. --François Fénelon

The only way to Heaven is prayer; a prayer of the heart, which every one is capable of, and not of reasonings which are the fruits of study, or exercise of the imagination, which, in filling the mind with wandering objects, rarely settle it; instead of warming the heart with love to God, they leave it cold and languishing. --Jeanne Guyon

We must alter our lives in order to alter our hearts, for it is impossible to live one way and pray another. --William Law

The Third Petition of the Lord's Prayer is repeated daily by millions who have not the slightest intention of letting anyone's will be done but their own.--Aldous Huxley

Is the Son of God praying in me, or am I dictating to Him?....Prayer is not simply getting things from God, that is a most initial form of prayer; prayer is getting into perfect communion with God. If the Son of God is formed in us by regeneration, 

He will press forward in front of our common sense and change our attitude to the things about which we pray. --Oswald Chambers

Those who know God the best are the richest and most powerful in prayer. Little acquaintance with God, and strangeness and coldness to Him, make prayer a rare and feeble thing. --E. M. Bounds

How often have we prayed something like, "O Lord, be with cousin Billy now in a special way"? Have we stopped to consider what it is we're requesting? Imagine that you are a parent who is preparing to leave your children with a babysitter. 

Would you dream of saying, "O Betsy, I ask you now that you would be with my children in a special way?" No way. You would say, "Betsy, the kids need to be in bed by 9 pm. They can have one snack before their baths, and please make sure they finish their homework. You can reach us at this number if there's any problem. Any questions before we go?" We are very specific with our requests and instructions for our babysitters. We want them to know specifics. It should be no different with prayer. --David Jeremiah

There is a general kind of praying which fails for lack of precision. It is as if a regiment of soldiers should all fire off their guns anywhere. Possibly somebody would be killed, but the majority of the enemy would be missed. --Charles Haddon Spurgeon

When a Christian shuns fellowship with other Christians, the devil smiles. When he stops studying the Bible, the devil laughs. When he stops praying, the devil shouts for joy. --Corrie Ten Boom

When I pray, coincidences happen, and when I don't pray, they don't. --William Temple

Faith in a prayer-hearing God will make a prayer-loving Christian. --Andrew Murray

Do you know what prayer is? It is not begging God for this and that. The first thing we have to do is to get you beggars to quit begging until a little faith moves in your souls. --John G. Lake

Those who do not believe do not pray. This is a good functional definition of faith. Faith prays, unbelief does not. --John A. Hardon

Pray, and let God worry. -- Martin Luther

Do not pray for easy lives. Pray to be stronger men. Do not pray for tasks equal to your powers, pray for powers equal to your task. --Phillips Brooks

This is our Lord's will... that our prayer and our trust be, alike, large.-- Julian of Norwich

If you can't pray a door open, don't pry it open.-- Lyell Rader

God's answers are wiser than our prayers. –Unknown

There are more tears shed over answered prayers than over unanswered prayers. --Teresa of Avila

God does not delay to hear our prayers because He has no mind to give; but that, by enlarging our desires, He may give us the more largely. --Anselm of Canterbury

We waste most of our time trying to get God to do something He has already done—or praying for God to do something He told us to do. --Jacquelyn K. Heasley

If God will do whatever He wishes, regardless of whether we pray or not, then we do not need to pray at all, and the Lord's instructions on praying for the Kingdom and the Will are superfluous. But the truth is that God waits for a Remnant to rise up and to pray in agreement with His Purpose before He does anything - He will do nothing apart from the Church. Apart from HIM, we CAN do nothing; apart from US, He WILL do nothing –Chip Brogden

We lean to our own understanding, or we bank on service and do away with prayer, and consequently by succeeding in the external we fail in the eternal, because in the eternal we succeed only by prevailing prayer. --Oswald Chambers

The Church is looking for better methods; God is looking for better men. The Holy Ghost does not flow through methods, but through men. He does not come on machinery, but on men. He does not anoint plans, but men…Men of prayer." --E. M. Bounds

Prayer in its highest form is agonizing soul sweat. --Leonard Ravenhill

Let the fires go out in the boiler room of the church and the place will still look smart and clean, but it will be cold. The 
Prayer Room is the boiler room for its spiritual life. --Leonard Ravenhill

How different the world would look, how different the state of our nation would be, if there were more sanctified priestly souls! These are souls who have the power to bless, for they intercede with sanctified hearts. They never begin their daily time of intercessory prayer without having first brought to the cross all that is unholy in their lives, so that their old self can be crucified there with Jesus, the sacrificial Lamb. –Basilea Schlink

The Church has not yet touched the fringe of the possibilities of intercessory prayer. Her largest victories will be witnessed when individual Christians everywhere come to recognize their priesthood unto God and day by day give themselves unto prayer. --John R. Mott

I must secure more time for private devotions. I have been living far too public for me. The shortening of devotions starves the soul, it grows lean and faint. I have been keeping too late hours. --William Wilberforce

We hear it said that a man will suffer in his life is he does not pray; I question it. What will suffer is the life of the Son of God within him, which is nourished not by food but by prayer...Prayer is the way the life of God is nourished. --Oswald Chambers

Why is it so important that you are with God and God alone on the mountain top? It's important because it's the place in which you can listen to the voice of the One who calls you the beloved. To pray is to listen to the One who calls you "my beloved daughter," "my beloved son," "my beloved child." To pray is to let that voice speak to the center of your being, to your guts, and let that voice resound in your whole being. --Henri Nouwen

So when we sing, 'Draw me nearer, nearer, blessed Lord,' we are not thinking of the nearness of place, but of the nearness of relationship. It is for increasing degrees of awareness that we pray, for a more perfect consciousness of the divine Presence. We need never shout across the spaces to an absent God. He is nearer than our own soul, closer than our most secret thoughts. --A.W. Tozer

The lover of silence draws close to God. He talks to Him in secret and God enlightens him. --John Climacus
Tell God all that is in your heart, as one unloads one's heart, its pleasures and its pains, to a dear friend. Tell God your troubles, that God may comfort you; tell God your joys, that God may sober them; tell God your longings, that God may purify them; tell God your dislikes, that God may help you conquer them; talk to God of your temptations, that God may shield you from them: show God the wounds of your heart, that God may heal them. If you thus pour out all your weaknesses, needs, troubles, there will be no lack of what to say. Talk out of the abundance of the heart, without consideration say just what you think. Blessed are they who attain to such familiar, unreserved intercourse with God. --Francois Fenelon

Our ordinary views of prayer are not found in the New Testament. We look upon prayer as a means for getting something for ourselves; the Bible idea of prayer is that we may get to know God Himself. --Oswald Chambers

If you are sick, fast and pray; if the language is hard to learn, fast and pray; if the people will not hear you, fast and pray, if you have nothing to eat, fast and pray. - Frederick Franson

Men may spurn our appeals, reject our message, oppose our arguments, despise our persons; but they are helpless against our prayers. --J. Sidlow Baxter

Notice, we never pray for folks we gossip about, and we never gossip about the folk for whom we pray! For prayer is a great deterrent. --Leonard Ravenhill

God never gives us discernment in order that we may criticize, but that we may intercede. -- Oswald Chambers
There is nothing that makes us love a man so much as praying for him. --William Law

Rich is the person who has a praying friend. --Janice Hughes

A servant of the Lord stands bodily before men, but mentally he is knocking at the gates of heaven with prayer. –John Climacus

It is necessary to rouse the heart to pray, otherwise it will become quite dry. The attributes of prayer must be: love of God, sincerity, and simplicity. --John of Kronstadt

Whether we think of or speak to God; whether we act or suffer for him; all is prayer when we have no other object than his 
love, and the desire of pleasing him. --John Wesley

Accustom yourself gradually to carry Prayer into all your daily occupation -- speak, act, work in peace, as if you were in prayer, as indeed you ought to be. --François Fénelon

The true spirit of prayer is no other than God's own Spirit dwelling in the hearts of the saints. And as this spirit comes from God, so doth it naturally tend to God in holy breathings and pantings. It naturally leads to God, to converse with him by prayer. --Jonathan Edwards

God does not stand afar off as I struggle to speak. He cares enough to listen with more than casual attention. He translates my scrubby words and hears what is truly inside. He hears my sighs and uncertain gropings as fine prose. --Timothy Jones

Prayer is not a discourse. It is a form of life, the life with God. That is why it is not confined to the moment of verbal statement. --Jacques Ellul

In prayer it is better to have a heart without words than words without a heart. -- John Bunyan

When a man has found the Lord, he no longer has to use words when he is praying, for the Spirit Himself will intercede for him with groans that cannot be uttered. --John Climacus

Prayer is not so much an act as it is an attitude—an attitude of dependency, dependency upon God. --Arthur W. Pink

There is not in the world a kind of life more sweet and delightful than that of a continual conversation with God. --Brother Lawrence

Prayer does not fit us for the greater work, prayer is the greater work. --Oswald Chambers

"I would rather train twenty men to pray, than a thousand to preach; A minister's highest mission ought to be to teach his people to pray." -H. MacGregor